We want it all & we want it now! Gotta have patience! Yes, patience! My "perfect" guy: I want someone smart-a college grad, yet street smart. Fashionable, pants fitted but not too-tight. Treat me like a queen but not allow me to have my way ALL of the time. I wanna feel secure but not smothered. Cool with trying new things, but not over the top with it. Like classical music, but can jam with me to "No hands"- lol. Works hard, knows that i got it but offers anyways. Pays attention to my body language & knows when i need a hug or laugh. Someone who can appreciate my natural beauty in addition to my curves. He needs to be young enough to keep up with me yet mature enough to handle me; not either or.
Once you remove the gay guys, married guys, and guys who play games out of the picture what are you left with?! Exactly, mr.nice guy.....unfortunately most women (self-included) have no idea how to handle or even begin to relate to the token nice guy! *sigh We always want it all, but do I have to settle for either....or? Am I being selfish/greedy for wanting it all....NOW!? we've all met guys we liked & said "he's cool,but...." is it self-sabotage or our own insecurities that forces us to focus on the 1 thing we dislike instead of the 20 things we love? Let me get it together, let go & let flow & stop looking for either or.(taking my own advice)
