Don't confuse compromising with settling. There IS a HUGE difference and we must be able to identify them. We all want our "Mr. Right" but did any of us ever stop to think that "Mr. Right Now" maybe all that we can currently handle or are prepared for. Mr. Right Now could be all that we ever imagined our "Mr. Right" would be, except he has that 1 thing that we won't compromise on. We want that perfect guy, but are we the perfect lady? Being honest with yourself is often the most difficult thing to do. It is alright to be alone, some of us need this to find out who we really are and what we really want. Mr. Right Now does not have to be a bad thing. He can teach you things about yourself and keep you entertained while you're still looking for Mr. Right. The problem presents itself when we attempt to change Mr. Right Now into Mr. Right. Everyone that comes in and out of our lives serves a purpose, whether we choose to believe this or not. You can choose to ignore that purpose or embrace it. Embrace the lessons, and reasons that person has been placed into your life and let go when you are suppose to. Someone who is perfect for you now, may not be perfect forever!
My twitter homie @Chyuuch said it best when he said: "We ain't gotta be 2gether 4ever-but let's just fully enjoy the time we have w/o wasting a second holding back.
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